Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Gone, Loved, and Remembered, but Not Free

I love Robin Williams, always have always will. He was a comical genius and there was just something about him and his work that just took you away and allowed you to live in the moment. I really do hope with all of my heart and soul that he is in peace now. But every time I see a "Genie, you're free" post, I can't help but get a little upset. Depression is a disorder that affects your mind and ability to think clearly and rationally. It takes away your ability to see the light at the end of the tunnel. That is not the fault of the person suffering. It just pains me to no end that we, as a society, are condoning the fact that suicide can be perceived as a form of freedom. Suicide doesn't end the bad things from happening, it prevents things from getting better. As someone who has dealt with severe depression for several years, I am more than sympathetic of those with the disease. But please, do not even hint at the fact that suicide is the best possible solution. There are always options, even when we don't realize. Silence is one of the biggest contributors to depression and suicide. Do not fall victim to that. Speak up if you are struggling. The darkness can be temporary but suicide certainly is not. I know everyone means well and wants to respect Robin Williams and show that they care for him, but do not allow his suicide to be viewed as a romanticized effort or the real life ending to one of the world's favorite childhood movies. Suicide rates go up after the suicide of a celebrity or public figure. Robin Williams lost his battle to depression. Let this fuel our fight against mental illnesses and remind us just how serious suicide is. The world will never hear the laugh or famous impressions of an extremely talented and beloved man. Let his death be something more meaningful than the mistaken belief that ending your life is a form of freedom. There is always someone to listen. There is always someone to help. It starts with us. With that I will finish and say this: Rest in peace Robin Williams. You are in the hearts of individuals everywhere and your legacy will live on.

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